Learning How To Be Single After a Long-Term Relationship Breakup

Long -Term relationships have so many hopes and plans...

After being in for more than 2 or 5 yrs...your mindset automatically settles knowing he/she is the one. But in reality a committed... (put a ring on it)... relationship hasn't occurred and anything can happen.

After a while we may start to think..I've invested so much time into this relationship...I know he/she is going to be my wife/husband. And so we settle with this thought...and become comfortable with it. Then the seasons and chapters pass... challenging storms weather up against the relationship...we find ourselves not wanting to weather the storms with anyone else. But still anything can happen.

Then after all the time spent, invested, things accepted...A BREAKUP happens.
The Brain goes through withdrawal...almost like the other half of you is missing...or your energies with whom you have shared space is...WHAT?! HOW do I move forward...HE/SHE was suppose to have been my...WAIT WHAT?! I can't start over...How can He/She do this to me...WAIT! WHAT?! Devastated...Anything did happen...And it wasn't the plan.

Learning How To Be Single After a Long-Term Relationship BREAKUP...

Its Good to Have a Strong Friend in a time like this...for the vultures will lurk...
"Big Thanks to my Friend" forever grateful xoxo 💗

Praying while seeking ..WHAT'S NEXT..the heart was in despair...
While being Silent in the Presence of GOD He spoke...

He asked, why is your heart in despair?
Proceeding to babble my sob story...He said, did I say this was to be your husband?
Humbly I said No...There was SILENCE...

Again the Father asked me, Why is your Heart in Despair?

I responded with Humbleness...Father Forgive Me...For I have sinned...
After a Long Silence...

I said...What Now?

He said tell me your Story...I spent hours going through the chapters and scenes of my life...
When I finished the despair was gone...

Learning To Be Single After a Long-Term Relationship Breakup...
Be Single in Christ...For then the HEART HEALS & KNOWS TRUE LOVE.

BE FREE
Kathy Jackson
AKA Kajai

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